NOT THAT KINDA MOM

Ok, so Mother's Day is coming and it can't be ignored.

I've seen a ton of articles, blog posts and ads about what to get mom this year. Craft ideas, jewelry, weekends away. It got me critically thinking about what I really wanted from my family.

Aside from the digital SLR I've been blatantly hinting at, I really don't want any big-money gifts. I don't need jewels and don't have time for expensive overnights. But on the flip side, I'm not the kind of mom who's going to be content with a homemade card and a bouquet of store bought flowers either.

Don't get me wrong, the kids' crafts are cute, but I want a little more thought and imagination put into the day for remembering all that mom does. Husband has been known to surprise me with his thoughtfulness, but he's more of a last minute, tell-me-what-you-want, go-buy-it-yourself, kind of guy. Through 9 years of marriage, I'm learning to get used to it.

What I really want this year is time. Time for me. Selfishness. I want to be uninterrupted and guilt-free. I want a sunny day in the garden. I want freedom from cooking and whining. And I want a little recognition to go with it. Maybe in the form of a personal heartfelt sentiment in my card. Or a small piece of thoughtful, symbolic, costume jewelry handpicked and without hints.

But a new watering can and Home Depot gift card won't hurt either. Which is exactly what he heard me ask for...