ALL GROWNS UP

Man, these kids grow fast. The last thing we want or will vocally hope for is anything to make them grow faster. It's bittersweet when they learn to crawl then walk. This major milestone is overshadowed by the frenzied baby-proofing and frustration of not know exactly where and how your child is playing.

But somethings are so exciting, and refreshingly independent, and can't come soon enough. I don't care what you say, these things are major time and sanity savers.

POTTY TRAINING - Big one. Not only is it an unbelievable time suck, but it's so expensive! I've been on both sides of the diaper debate, so don't even go there. Cloth diapering is not a cheap investment and it's a killer on laundry days.

TALKING - We all love the gibberish and baby talk. Yeah, yeah. To a point. I get tired of guessing what the kid's are impatiently demanding. Signing is a great interim tool, but I end up learning more than they do and often don't have the time for research. Just learning a few key words makes a world of happiness. "Milk", "food", and "please" can really go the distance, but we're all ready to move forward.

SWINGING - I KNOW there are mom's out there with me on this one. We're all jealous of the parents whose kids don't need help on the swings. These smug mothers holding their coffee and actually chatting with other moms while overlooking their kids play. Now I am one. LOVE. IT.

GETTING DRESSED - I don't often care what my daughter looks like as long as she's covered. I consider it encouraging her inner fashionista while developing her confidence and independence. And I get to stay in bed for an extra 20 minutes while she's doing it. Small price to pay for mismatched socks.

This summer, we've made huge advancements in all areas stated above. Daughter is fluent in the art of using the bathroom, finally, understanding the importance of the toilet paper. Son has a handful of spoken words to share, though "ball" doesn't quite get us through the snack time meltdown when he's frantically signing "please" and pointing towards the pantry. Daughter is swinging and dressing with the big kids. And, she's even taken an interest in matching her clothing lately.

I know they won't stay little forever, and truly, I do love each age and stage. I'm not wishing my kids to be teenagers my next week. But I am grateful for these little things, these signs of advancement and improvement. After all, it is my job to grow kids. And so far, it's successful.